Sunday, May 25, 2014

Cleaning the Tank



I believe that I have written about our water situation.  I will recap.  We haul our own water with a trailer and two tanks.  Almost every Friday we, meaning my husband or our sons, go to the neighbors and pump water into the tanks.  Then drive the tanks to our house and pump the water into our holding tank.  Our holding tank is made out of black plastic.  Black plastic is very important because it does not allow algae to grow.  Well not as much as the white plastic.  Just like everything it needs to be cleaned.  So every once in a while we allow the tanks to drain.  Then our sons crawl into the tank to steam wash the sides.  Then they vacuum out the yuck.  Our youngest was the lucky one available to enter the tank this time.  He looks like he was swimming, but that was just the steam.  After that is done they refill the water.  Then they go into the house and change and clean all the filters.  Even the filter attached to the washing machine.  It is amazing how much debris and silt gets attached to that little filter.  Which isn't even as big as your thumb.

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

He got the job

So our oldest son has been on a search for a job.  He has looked on line, in person, and by word of mouth.  About two months ago, when he returned from the North, he placed applications in at all the big manufacturers in our area.  Abbott, Frito Lay, Daisy, National Vitamin, The Egg Farm, Pinal Energy, ETC.  No calls, No Emails.  Nada.  He accepts a job at the local pizza place.  He works maybe 20 hours per week.  This is middle of the road at best.  They will not give him more hours.  He is trudging along.   Unable to full fill his dreams. Simple dreams.  You know get a vehicle, move out.  This is our goal.  MOVE OUT.  He provided a resume, a nice reference letter, and a fabulous referral from family friends who are employed at these plants.  So he was just trudging along.

Until last week he gets a call from  the Egg Farm.  They called and left a message.  He could not make it out so I listened.  I heard a man's voice and could only make out the Egg Farm.  He spoke in such broken English it was impossible to understand. Even without knowing fully what the man said I knew he had to call.  Hopefully he would get an English speaking person.  Nope its the same man.  They wanted to meet with him.  So we went.  Yes Our Oldest has a drivers license, and yes he can drive.  But no we are not comfortable allowing him to drive, and no my husband will not let him use our vehicles.  Anyway.  To not cause any sort of disagreement I drive him to Hickman's Farms.  It is almost 40 minutes away.  I thought it was closer.  He has his interview and they tell him they will call with drug screen appointment and orientation meeting.

He waits and waits.  Another week goes by and I tell him to call.  Years ago that was the practice.  You did something and then you followed up.  Not in today's day and age.  So he calls and the man, still not sure if he is Miguel or Manny, and he is told to go to have a urine drug screening at the lab the next day.  Well in order to have any tests you must show ID.  You think he has his, nope.  He left his wallet at his girlfriend's parents house.  So, yes I am grumpy but tell him I will drive him back out to the REZ to get it.  Oh no the girlfriend has a meeting at the high school at 10 so we can meet her there.  Great.  We get it and then go to the lab.  Do you think the receptionist knows what he is talking about when he tells her he is there for a drug screen.  Oh she will call.  So there we are waiting and she doesn't call.  So I stand up and ask should he call his contact.  Oh no I'll call she says.  We hear her call and leave a message.  Did she really think we were just going to sit there and wait.  I send him outside to call his contact, Miguel or Manny.  Miguel or Manny will fax in the authorization and order.  He also has no idea who the receptionist left a message with.  He walks back in and before he can sit down the papers come over.  She said oh thats funny they are from Miguel  I don't work with him only Shirley.  Who is Shirley.  He goes in the back leaves his sample and we leave.  He gets a call from Miguel, glad we cleared that up, telling him that the girls who handle the orientation and paperwork will call him and set up an appointment.

Around noon he gets a call from the paperwork people.  Can you go to Buckeye for orientation tomorrow, they really want to get you started.  He asks me and I say sure.  Not really sure how I'm going to pull that off.   Getting him to Buckeye and back, and getting myself to work on time.  When he was talking to Miguel last week orientation was from 8 to 5.  No way I was going to miss work.  Buckeye is about 2 hours from our house.  It would not be cost or time effective if I drove and dropped him off and someone else went to pick him up.  So I called Amanda, my fill in at work, her number is disconnected.  I called Barbara, the morning person at work, and she gives me the same number.  My next recourse was to ask Barbara if she would stay late.  She agrees.  I tell her it will only be a about 4 hours.  After She agrees  I call my supervisor and she agrees.  Then My Oldest tells me it is only until 2.  Great this will only push me a couple hours late for work.

So I am sitting at McDonald's inside Walmart surfing the net.  This, I hope, will not be a wasted day.  This job will pay more with increase options.  It has benefits after 90 days.   They also offer 40 plus hours per week.  My friend's husband has worked with them for over a decade.  He thinks the employees are treated fairly.  When My Oldest lived in the north he worked at the pig farm.  He can do this.  I don't know how else he will survive on his own making only minimum wage.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

I will keep him

My husband and I have been married for 20 years.   About 5 years into our marriage we had a rough time.  I told my husband that when the children turned 18 I would divorce him.  Our youngest son is 17 so if I was following what I said I would only have 1 year to go.  Well just last night it dawned on me that I'm not going anywhere.  It was around 11:30 p.m and we were crawling into bed.  It was a long day for both of us.  So he gave me the "yes I will find you in heaven" kiss.  And he said he was tired.  I was tired too.  So we got comfortable and dozed off holding hands.  As I was falling asleep I thought isn't this wonderful to be content just next to someone.  Knowing you have found the right one.  Of coarse it took a lot for my epiphany.  After going thru surgery and needing so much.  Watching him do everything I normally do without complaining.  Every sound I made he was there.  He has always done things for me.  From tires and gas to building rabbit hutches and giving the animals shots.  He brings me home dr pepper and chocolate every time I ask.  He takes me places when he would rather just stay home.  Anyway I think I will keep him.

Saturday, May 17, 2014

traitor

So I come home to this.  My oldest son works at another Pizza joint. Is he a traitor or, I wonder if he just got tired of the same old sauce.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Eggs

At this time we have fourteen chickens and one rooster.  We bought the chickens from the family feed store in town in two batches.  It was around the second week in December.  We went to the store for rabbit pellets and heard peeping.  So of coarse I had to get some.  I asked my husband can I get twenty dollars worth.  He just sold our old chickens to the neighbor.  They stopped laying eggs and we had a freezer full of meat.  He said sure.  They were white leghorns and lay white eggs, supposedly they can lay three hundred eggs a year.  So we brought them home and popped them in the bath tub.  Then one night I went in to check on them and there were more.  I counted fourteen in total.  I called my husband and asked him about the extra chicks.  He said he stopped by the feed store for something and he just picked them up.  He only wanted six but their were two other yellow colored chicks.  He said he couldn't just leave them.  So now we have fourteen chickens.  They have just started to lay eggs.  This is very ironic because my husband has a picnic for his work at the beginning of May.  He is assigned deviled eggs.  We bring at least six dozen.  Do you think our little chickens layed eggs for that.  No they waited until two days after.  Anyway, we are getting about a dozen each day.  We even get two to three olive green eggs.  Those chicks that he couldn't leave behind are Easter Eggers.  They have feathers covering their ears and they lay olive green eggs.

Monday, May 12, 2014

T.V. watching

It just dawned on me that my Sugar dog watches T.V. when something catches her fancy.  I noticed this when watching Little House last week.  There was a bear attack and she watched and watched.  I have never seen a dog do this.  She will turn her head when she sees movement.  Interesting.  So tonight I was watching a show about penguins on Channel 8.  Sugar came and watched with me.

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Mother's Day Gifts

My Mother's Day gifts from my children.  Roses and Little House on the Prairie First Season set.  Very nice.  

Mother's Day

Today is Mother's Day.  I am the mother of two growing boys. They couldn't be more different.

 My oldest is 19.  He has always struggled in everything he does.  Be it school or life in general.  Here lately he is very hard to be around.  Just like all children he only acts nice when he wants or needs something.  I have hoped he would grow out of this stage.  To this date he and his girlfriend live in my home.  He has a part time job at the local Pizza shop.  She is trying to Finish High School.  They are expecting a child around the end of September.  They do not get a long well.  We have asked him to move out.  He is confrontational and verbally abusive.  Unfortunately he is stubborn and I can only imagine how this situation will escalate.

My youngest is 17.  I believe he is mellowing out as he gets older.  He strives to do well in all he does.  Certain things come hard for him.  He is living in Maricopa with some friends while he attends the local High School.  Where he works extremely hard to keep his grades above passing.  He has a girlfriend who he adores.  They do well together.  The occasional bickering and little lover spat but that is to be expected.  He will be coming home for his Senior year.  I hope he can keep this relationship flowing in a positive direction thru the distance.  It is only a 45 minute drive.  But that is still time consuming.

My children do not get along at all.  They fight over everything.  Their fighting usually ends in blows.  Feelings get hurt, things get broken.  I also hope they will grow out of this.  When they were younger we went to counseling and I was assured that when they matured I would have no worries. That they would be the best of friends.  Of course nobody can say anything negative about either one or they are on them like bees to honey.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

Here Goes Again

I'm going to start blogging again.  I hope I will not slack off again.  Life is moving a long.  I have not worked at my JOB since March 23rd.  After a long battle I had a hysterectomy and took FMLA.  I will be returning on Wednesday the 14th.  It took me awhile to get back to normal.  I did take it very easy.  Thank goodness for my family they took care of everything.  From cooking, to cleaning, to shopping, to feeding the animals.  All I did was sit around and sleep.  Doing puzzles and crocheting but not much else.

Tomorrow I plan on starting my new routine.  Last week I started doing little things.  Now it is time for a normal work schedule at home and at work.  I can't wait.   Well going back to work, not so much.  I missed things like baking and milking and vacuuming.  I guess I can do without the vacuuming, boys just can not sweep or vacuum correctly.  Milking and vacuuming are the two things the Dr. specifically told me I could not do.  Oh and lift anything over five pounds.  I did break that rule.  Memee my Chihuahua weighs about nine pounds and I carried her as I always do.  Maybe not the first two weeks I was home but surely the rest.

I will keep you posted on my new schedule when I work it out.  I am unable to post pictures because I forgot to transfer any.  The next time